The Age of Accountability
From where did the concept of the “Age of Accountability” come? The term is absent in the Scriptures but it is adhered to by the Churches of Christ as if Christ said it himself. In case you are unfamiliar with the phrase let me give you my definition of it. The Age of Accountability refers to the age at which a child leaves the realm of spiritual innocence and becomes responsible for his or her sins. It is typically regarded as the age at which a child understands the difference between right and wrong and therefore can recognize sin. This means that once a child reaches the Age of Accountability he or she must be baptized for the forgiveness of sins (If you are unfamiliar with the theology of the Churches of Christ look here).
Typically children are forcefed baptism when they turn 10 or 11 years old and by the time they are 14 they are expected to be baptized. It is during this age range that people believe children enter this mysterious phase called the Age of Accountability (check out Age of Accountability in this article). As a youth minister I struggle to understand why we push adolescents to make a lifelong commitment to Christ before they are even able to drive a car. No parent would let their child get married when they’re 12 years old because teenagers don’t understand commitment, but when it comes to baptism adults push for these same kids to make a commitment of greater significance than even marriage. How can we expect middle school kids to grasp lifelong commitment to God when they’re going through the most hormonal stage of their lives?
Think about this, by pushing kids to commit to God around the age of 12 we are basically saying that this commitment is less important than driving a car (age 16), graduating high school (age 17), voting for the President or serving in the military (age 18), selecting a college along with an area of study or starting a career (age 18+), receiving auto insurance discounts (age 25), or getting married (the average age of marriage is between 25-27).
I believe that the Age of Accountability developed several decades ago (maybe even several centuries ago) when the age of 13 or 14 years old was considered adulthood. But since the 40s or 50s we’ve developed this thing called adolescence and by doing so we have “dumbified” our children. Adolescence actually allows children to stay immature longer and by creating a prolonged immature atmosphere we have caused our children to delay growing up. Ultimately our culture changed the age of adulthood but the age for baptism never changed with it. Maybe instead of looking for middle schoolers to be baptized we should be looking at high school and college students between the ages of 16-21. If you think about it, this is the age range that a person discovers themselves and begins choosing a direction for life and both of these are factors in becoming a Christian.
Although I disagree with the Age of Acountability and the whole “they should get baptized when the know the difference between right and wrong,” I do believe there is a gauge by which we know when someone can understand the decision to be baptized. This occurs when a person understands 3 concepts: FAITH (i.e. belief put into action; Hebrews 11:1, 6; Ephesians 2:8), REPENTANCE (i.e. giving up your sin; Acts 17:30, 2 Corinthians 7:10), and COMMITMENT (i.e. lifelong faithfulness; Revelation 2:10b). If one can understand these concepts then he or she can truly grasp the significance of their decision to be baptized.
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This is a very interesting post. I agree that there is no definitive age of accountability. I must respect someone for not following a tradition of man that may change God’s traditions. I hope that you agree that there can be a 10 year old who has godly sorrow for his sins, and that he must be immersed to be cleansed. Be careful about laying an error across the fellowship. I was not forcefed or pushed to be immersed at age 11. Neither were any of my friends, family, nor anyone across many congregations that I have been in fellowship with.
How long did the souls of Acts need to wait to be immersed unto a lifelong commitment? Just hours. I hope you agree that time is not a factor as neither is age, but the point of godly sorrow.
I completely agree with you that age and time are not factors that should be used to determine if someone is ready to be baptized. I myself was baptized at the age of 9 and have never questioned my reasons for being baptized. My concern is that we have become to focused on getting them in the water and not concerned enough about helping them understand their decision. I have not nor will I ever prevent one of my students from being baptized at whatever age they choose. But what I will do is strive to help them understand the serious nature of the commitment they are about to make. If you look at the dropout rate of teens from the church today (which is estimated at over 50% in “The Gospel According to Generation X” by Lewis, Dodd, and Tippens) it is apparent that the concept of commitment to God (or anything else for that matter) is not as strong as should be. Thanks for the comments.
As a youth minister, I totally agree about the commitment. I strive to help our youth to establish their own faith. Thanks for putting up with me testing you.
Grace & peace to you in Jesus Christ.
Hey Kyle! Have you ever brought these thoughts up to any group of elders? I’m very interested in what some would say. Also, what would you do if you thought that a kid (of whatever age) that wanted to be baptized wasn’t ready for it?
I’ve discussed my thoughts on commitment and baptism among teens in an adult class that I taught at our church last summer, and I will also present some of these thoughts in a class for adults and youth ministers that I’ll be teaching at our youth rally. I have not actually discussed it with an eldership though.
I’ve already encountered a couple of times when I thought a teen wasn’t ready to be baptized, but I do not stop them from being baptized because it is not my duty to decide whether or not they can receive God’s salvation nor is it my duty to determine if the Holy Spirit is truly working on them or not. I may worry about a teen’s sincerity or level of commitment when they decide to be baptized, but I leave the decision to them because they are responsible for their own soul, not me. My responsibility is to teach them and train them before, during, and after.
I like it.